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Bazi for Love
Read your relationship themes through your own Four Pillars. Start with the Day Master and Spouse Palace, then put them back into the whole chart.
- Your day pillar and its hidden Ten Gods, calculated from your birth details
- Relationship reflection without soulmate scores or fixed predictions
- An optional two-chart comparison when you want to explore a partnership
Traditional reflection, not a scientific assessment or a prediction.
Your focused chart overview
Your chart and focused overview remain available if the reading service is unavailable.
Your relationship reading
Your Four Pillars
Read left to right: year, month, day, hour. The day pillar carries the red seal — its top character is your Day Master, the one that stands for you.
Element balance
Visible stems count 1.0; hidden stems count 1.0, 0.5 and 0.3 by depth. The raw tally, before any judgement of strength.
Day Master strength
The birth month counts double; support for your Day Master is weighed against what drains it. The same scoring the paid readings run on.
Stars in your chart
Where each one sits and what it is counted from. They are not totalled into a score — a single star settles nothing on its own.
Luck pillars
The colour band is the element of each pillar's stem. Your current pillar is outlined.
Chart details
Want Sifu Xion to read it himself?
A written reading worked through by hand — judged rather than generated.
- Wealth, career and relationships, read from your actual chart
- The timing of your next luck pillar, and what to do inside it
- Delivered in writing, yours to keep
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How this calculator works
The day stem identifies your Day Master; the day branch is the traditional Spouse Palace. This calculator labels its hidden stems against your actual Day Master. It does not assign a partner's personality, orientation or future from those symbols.
Explore the topic
Your own chart is only one side of a relationship. Compare complete charts for context, and use lived experience, consent and communication as the basis for decisions.
Questions before you begin
Can this tell me when I will meet a soulmate?
No. A chart cannot establish that a particular person exists or guarantee a meeting, marriage or separation date. Use this page to understand traditional terms and form better questions.
Is this the same as a compatibility calculator?
This page starts with one person's natal chart. Our compatibility page accepts two charts. Neither replaces understanding a real relationship.
Do I need an exact birth time?
A confirmed time and birthplace improve the calendar calculation. If the time is unknown, choose that option: the hour is omitted and timing conclusions remain provisional.
Bazi knowledge
Each article takes one piece of the chart and answers four questions: what it is, what kinds there are, how to tell which one you have, and what to do about it.
- Water Na Yin: Spring, Stream, River and Sea Labels Explained
- Metal Na Yin: Sea Metal, Sword-Edge and the Six Metal Names
- Earth Na Yin: Roadside, Walls, Roofs and the Six Earth Labels
- Fire Na Yin: Furnace, Lamp, Lightning and the Other Fire Names
- Wood Na Yin: The Six Wood Names and What They Actually Label
- The 30 Na Yin Names: A Complete Table for the 60 Jia Zi
- How to Calculate Na Yin: A Reliable Stem-Branch Lookup
- What Is Na Yin in Bazi? The Paired Element Behind a Pillar
- Gui Hai Day Pillar: A Water Root with Rob Wealth and Hurting Officer
- Gui Chou Day Pillar: Seven Killings, a Water Root and Metal Resource
- Gui Mao Day Pillar: Pure Wood Output and Eating God
- Gui Si Day Pillar: Wealth, Resource and Direct Officer